{"id":1994,"date":"2026-05-17T17:02:54","date_gmt":"2026-05-17T17:02:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/?p=1994"},"modified":"2026-05-17T17:04:39","modified_gmt":"2026-05-17T17:04:39","slug":"the-quiet-expectation-to-want-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/the-quiet-expectation-to-want-more\/","title":{"rendered":"the quiet expectation to want more"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don\u2019t like to travel. I never have, and I don\u2019t see that ever changing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s not to say I\u2019m indifferent to the beauty of the world. I just don\u2019t need to see it. I\u2019m not a visual person, and while I can appreciate something for its beauty or grandeur, I\u2019m rarely moved by it the way others are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019ve traveled quite a bit. It was interesting\u2014but I\u2019d still rather stay home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019ve also never had any desire to go to clubs, concerts, or parties. I can do it, but most of the time I endure it rather than enjoy it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What I\u2019ve noticed is this: I offer nothing but acceptance to people who feel the need to go out, explore, and do things. That sentiment is rarely returned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Society treats that drive\u2014the urge to go, to experience, to be out there\u2014as the default. And if you don\u2019t share it, it\u2019s seen as odd. Like something\u2019s missing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m not offended by that. And at this point in my life, no one can guilt me into doing things I don\u2019t want to do. I\u2019ve paid those dues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I just find it interesting that even as we question so many defaults\u2014white, male, straight, able-bodied, Christian, right-handed, extroverted\u2014there are also these quiet expectations we often don\u2019t even notice, like the assumption that&nbsp;&nbsp;a \u201cnormal\u201d person wants to go out and see the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t like to travel. I never have, and I don\u2019t see that ever changing.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1994","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-off-my-chest"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1994","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1994"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1994\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1996,"href":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1994\/revisions\/1996"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1994"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1994"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sabrinablaum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1994"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}